What is the Helicopter Position?

A Popular Science Guide to Body Collaboration and Intimacy Exploration

In intimate relationships, positions are more than just "changing positions." It's a form of physical communication, testing trust, collaboration, and understanding of each other's bodily sensations.Today, we'll discuss a new position: the helicopter position, a challenging yet highly exploratory one. It's not for everyone, nor is it a "must-do" position, but rather offers a new perspective for couples seeking a deeper understanding of bodily rhythms and the possibilities of intimacy.

What is the Helicopter Position?

The helicopter position is a penetrating intimacy position where both partners face opposite directions, similar to a 69 position. However, the focus isn't on oral stimulation, but rather on body angles, core strength, and deep connection. It can be used with different gender combinations and can be achieved with the help of wearable devices. Penetration can be vaginal or anal, entirely depending on mutual agreement and comfort.

Due to its unique body angles, the helicopter position is generally considered one of the more difficult positions, requiring a certain level of core strength, stability, and body coordination.

Why would anyone be interested in the helicopter position?

1. It's a challenge of body and trust. The helicopter position doesn't emphasize speed or intensity, but rather how the bodies support, adjust, and coordinate with each other. During the process, partners often need to constantly communicate and adjust the angle. This interaction itself makes intimacy more real and concrete.

2. Changes in angle bring different sensory experiences. Due to the different body orientation and center of gravity, the angle of stimulation also changes. For some people with vulva issues, this angle may make it easier to reach specific sensitive areas inside the body; for the giver, the different posture will also result in different tactile feedback.

3. Changes in vision and spatial awareness. The helicopter position breaks the "face-to-face" or "same-direction" structure of common positions, allowing intimacy to rely less on eye contact and more on touch, breathing, and physical responses. For some, this shift in sensory focus makes it easier to concentrate on the present moment.

Two common variations of the helicopter position:

1. Classic Helicopter Position (Advanced)
This version requires a higher level of physical strength, usually requiring good core strength and upper limb stability. It is suitable for couples with some athletic background who are willing to try it gradually. If you feel uncomfortable at any moment, you should stop or adjust immediately

2. Ground Helicopter Position (Friendly Version)
This is a more commonly used version. By lowering the body height and using pillows or supports, you can reduce the burden on your arms and core while retaining the difference in experience brought about by the angle change. For most people, this is a safer and more sustainable option.

What if your physical condition doesn't match?

Not every intimate relationship is suitable for or requires challenging positions. If your physical strength, flexibility, or the day's condition doesn't allow it, you can consider using external aids or tools to make the experience still possible. For example, in the ground version, some people choose to add gentle, rhythmic vibrations to help the body obtain sufficient sensory feedback without extra effort.

SHEVEREIGN recommends two assistive options:

Deep Secrets suitable for those who prefer exploring internal rhythms. Its design emphasizes stable, continuous rhythm and is often used in situations where it's difficult to actively exert force in a position, helping the body maintain sensory continuity.

Whisper Wear focuses more on external sensations and emotional relaxation, making it suitable for use when adjusting positions or taking breaks, ensuring the experience isn't interrupted by pauses.

In SHEVEREIGN's philosophy, devices are not a substitute for intimacy, but rather provide the body with more possibilities and choices.

Safety and Consensus Principles to Know Before Trying:

-The helicopter position doesn't pursue "completeness"; safety and comfort always take precedence.
-Communicate beforehand to see if you're both interested.
-Clearly define the signal that you can stop at any time.
-Thorough warm-up and stretching.
-Use lubricant to reduce friction and pressure.
-Don't force your body, and don't compare "who can do it."
-Intimacy itself shouldn't be an expression, but a feeling.

Final Reminders About Trying:

If a particular attempt doesn't go smoothly, that's perfectly fine. Many people eventually find that more important than "whether a position is completed" is whether they felt respected, listened to, and cared for during the process. The helicopter position is just one of many forms of intimacy. You always have the right to choose the pace, method, and boundaries that suit you.